Here we go again!

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Registered: 03-08-2005
Here we go again!
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Sat, 12-19-2009 - 9:50am

Can you believe that we had it all set. we had friends to sit with at the Christmas party.


Well yesterday at work grants friend tells him that his nephews wife sent a letter to our friends again. She was begging the friend to get us to let them sit will all of us, at the company Christmas party. They want to appoligise to us at the party and be friends again.


We just want them to leave us alone! Guess it is not going to happen.


Now our friends wife says she is going to see if she can get a shift that night so she will not have to be there for the party and see the family fight.


we just want to be left alone. you see he works out of estevan...not carnduff like grant. the estevan people are a very small group that come because of the hour drive.


also in the letter it goes on about how our friend needs to get us all back together. What a B! We are so fed up! Now we may not go to the party either. Where we will sit ...they said they will sit because they know we won't cause a scene!. You know i have enought to worry about!


So do i send her a letter back?? She did not listen last time and has done the letter thing to our friends again. You see our friends don't want them there either. Grants nephews(rob) wife (debbie) too my friends sealed wedding dress and opened it thinking she could get married in it. Do you know how much it costs to seal them again..not to mention she didn't want to lend the dress. This is how pushy debbie is. She is the family fight starter. he is the family mooch / thief!


to top that off...i had a dream. soemtimes my dreams to reflect the future. this dream was more than 2 weeks ago. i dreamt that they showed up at our home just after we left the party. Dropped the kids off here, and went to the party. they had left the kids here with thomas' girlfriend. pushed in the door and left. then came to the party. we got a call at the party they did that. then they follow us home and think we are letting them stay there for the night.


I am sick to my stomach about this. i have enough on my plate already! Just leave us alone. i also expect this is happening so that debbie can be a hero in the family and maybe get us home (to the inlaws) for christmas/boxing day!

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Registered: 03-08-2005
Wed, 12-23-2009 - 11:18am

I would love to stay home, watch tv, play some games and eat christmas junk! Not sure it will happen. Grant wants me to go to the christmas party with him. you see i usually do the driving and he can have a couple and visit with his other workers.


If we do have to go. after that is is home to relax. sadly our friend too another shift at the hospital to avoid the party and grants nephew and wife. Just not

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