One night stand

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2003
One night stand
Tue, 06-03-2003 - 11:52pm
I met this great guy at a club Friday night and we really hit it off... looks and personality he is great. the problem is I got a bit carried away and we ended up in bed together. Well, we held each other the whole night and yes we did it agian the next morning but then we spent the whole Saturday together walking around the city and talking, it all seemed OK. I asked if we could see each other next weekend and he said he may have a job on Saturday. By 5:30pm we parted ways. he gave me a one armed hug with his cheek turned towards my face, so I kissed him, though I wasn't sure if that was the right thing to do. He told me to call him this week to find out about Saturday.

Well i called him yesterday, got his voice mail so I left a message but he hasn't called back yet (it is Tuesday night) Should I take this all as he wants nothing to do with me anymore? To be honest, I don't know is I want to make a relationship with him, but I would like to get to know him better, with out sex this time. Any advice?

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Wed, 06-04-2003 - 10:24pm
Hi aguilar206 & welcome,

Here are some boards you could pose this situation to for advice & input-

Adventures in Dating

Ask a Guy

He Said/She Said

Guy Talk: Real Men, Real Issues, Real Answers

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