Sex and Middle Schoolers!

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Registered: 06-02-2006
Sex and Middle Schoolers!
Mon, 04-20-2009 - 11:15am
I need advice, I have two wonderful nieces who are turning 14 this year.  They recently confided in me about some risky behavior.  I was bothered that they have already tried alcohol at age 13 but that was the least of my worries.  One has already had sex and the other has given a hand job to a boy at school of all places!  I am very close to my sisters and my nieces.  I feel their parents (my sisters) need to know but their parents will not be level headed about it.  If I tell; then my nieces will absolutely hate me and have no adult to confide in.  If my sisters find out that I knew and didn't tell them then they will hate me! What am I supposed to do?? 
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Registered: 02-21-2003
Mon, 04-20-2009 - 3:17pm

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