hurt confused and severly handicapped

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Registered: 02-22-2006
hurt confused and severly handicapped
Thu, 01-28-2010 - 6:17am

First this family has been blessed by God if you want to call it that. I have two sons which unfortunately have their own medical problems ranging for mild to severe. In reality one is borderline mentally retarded the other is bi polar in a depression in trouble with the law. His intentions were good when he met a girl she was on and it wound up well let's put it this way she said she was above 18 took off her clothes first they made love and guess where the misdemeanor came from she wasn't however today she is 21 and is still contacting him. Sending him pics and such and they just confiscated his phone saying that the pics were pornographic I don't know I was embarrassed enough when he came home from his PO meeting with my car ransacked.

I have myself gone through 8 major operations looking at number 9 2 brain and 6 spinal cord. The ninth will be another decompression surgery. Because of a doctors mistake which lead to major complications after the first one. We couldn't sue they said because I signed some sort of detailed white sheet. My husband has died of a glioblastoma multiforme and my youngest the borderline mentally retarded one. Is working on trying to get SSD which I am already on I guess they figured you go through that many operations and hell might as well beside the fact I am looking at a long life of complete and utter pain. And my oldest is looking at possible jail time over keeping the photos sent to him by her.

My fiancee which I met a few years after my husband passed on and was engaged for four and a half years. Comes back every so often to ask me to marry him I tell him yes and he runs again.

My youngest has also done me a huge favor as well he has managed to put 75,000 on my credit cards which I can not afford to pay and have no way of it. To pay off medical expenses after they threatened to keep me if it wasn't paid. He didn't know any better in a few days I am looking at going to court to explain this hell if they want my wheelchair that much they can have it because that is all I own except the clothes on my back.

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Registered: 08-07-2007
Thu, 01-28-2010 - 9:35am

It sure sounds like