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|Sat, 06-26-2010 - 10:31am|
If you seen my post in Friday Free For All, you know that my brother and his girlfriend are living with us, expense free. If you didn't know that now you do :-)
We have given $100 that is to be repaid for a doctors appointment. GF has sezuires and if she doesn't have medicine its constant trips to the ER, so the doctors appointment is needed. I've writen checks that they are to repay so they didn't need to spend the money for a money order.
Her comes the problem. GF is buying unneeded items. Yesterday she packed a lunch, and even stopped by walmart to purchase Tofu, but still ordered a pizza for lunch. And not one slice, she brought pizza home. She also bought bottled vitamin water, and a monster and stuff to do her nails!!! Nothing against buying water, but we have bottled water here at the house she could of taken with him. And the kick to the water, it looks like three sips have been taken from it and the rest is in the fridge. The nails are NOT a nessecitiy, and I have nothing against someone doing them, if they don't owe Me/anyone money!!!!
Now I'll be honest, I'm PO'ed about it!!! We are giving them our earnings to help them (mostly my borther) get a new start. My brother, washes my car, does dishes, cooks, watches Carolynn, ect ect, but she sits on her ass when she is here!!! I'm just frusterated, and I really want to say something about buying the pizza/water/monster drinks/nail stuff.
So do I just come out and say it, and don't worry about pissing them off. My brother knows I'm upset with her about it, and so is he, as they need the money get an appartment!!! I'm kicking them out by the 4th!!! (it will have been 30 days by then, and that was our agreement) I just feel like GF thinks she gets a "free ride" and its really annoying. HELP!