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mymartes
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Find myself waiting...
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 Tue, 04-01-2003 - 11:01am
each day for the mail to arrive to see which bill has come. Isn't that pathetic. However, I'm so anxious to pay half of our cc debt by year end. There are many days when I am so angry at my h. Not sure what makes me more angry, the affair or the debt he put us in because of the affair. I know one thing. I can't wait to pay it off.

There are days when I see us buying a home together with our toddlers, then there are others when I see us apart. Don't know what the future hold for our marriage. I do know I want to pay our debts off.

Sorry this post may not make sense. However, just felt I needed to post it. You know how times u think about something, and it makes u feel a little better writing it.

Still waiting for the darn income tax checks.

MYM

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jajaadetton
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 Wed, 04-02-2003 - 8:29am
I am so there with you....my day circles around mail time and my old mailperson would be late so now withmy newone, he comes in at around 2pm and I open the door several times to see if he's been here. Look down the streets to check if flags are still up on neighbors boxes. Yes, we are al pathetic! But that's ok. I'd rather be pathetic than in debt and miserable.

There with ya,


Andi D.

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mrslove2000
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 Tue, 04-01-2003 - 4:53pm
You're not alone. I do the same thing. I don't know what I am going to do once I am debt free. What will come in the mail? Catalogs-NO WAY, I'm always sending in request to have them stopped! Letters from Friends and Family? Email is much quicker and instant messaging is cheaper than a phone call. Ob, boy, I hope the US Postal Service doesn't go bankrupt since they won't be delivering all the BILLS to my home. (I'm sure they will manage!)

:0)

Susan

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kristens_mom
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 Tue, 04-01-2003 - 2:59pm
No bills deserves a bit of a celebration. I have been known not to check my mail for over a week because I don't want to face those bills. Sigh. However I have a nice big tax refund check coming so now I'm more motivated to check, and just put the bills in a pile and pretend they don't exist. LOL I'm quite sure I was an ostich in another life.

Tam

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mymartes
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 Tue, 04-01-2003 - 12:55pm
Mail arrived. No bills.

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