Our wedding is in 12 weeks, and since DF was out of work for a while, we're back to living paycheck to paycheck. Today at work, I figured up how much $$$ each of us would have to hold out of each check to pay the bills and wedding stuff. He's just temping right now, so he only brings home $860/mth. He pays $350 rent, $40 cable, and buys the groceries. I bring home $925/mth. I pay $70 gas bill, $30 electric, $30 water. He doesn't have a car (so I take him to work and pick him up every day), so no car pmt or insurance, my car pmt is $175 and insurance $70, plus the rediculous amount of gas these days. So, we're at $390+groceries=him, $375+gas=me. I'm paying for the majority of the wedding expenses, he's only paying $100 for the tux, $40 for the license, and $85 for the wedding night hotel room.
So, anyway, he got mad at me for budgeting "his" money! But if I don't, we'll be out of money before we even get groceries! He's horrible at money (that's why we're always keeping everything seperate)! He just doesn't get it, and it frustrates the heck out of me! Why does he have to be so stupid???????