How to Get Out of Debt

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How to Get Out of Debt
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Mon, 04-14-2003 - 6:03pm
How to Get Out of Debt Stay Out of Debt and Live Prosperously by Jerrold Mundis was the most helpful book to me when I was desperate. Let's check in here and share if we have read it and if so did you find it helpful. If not is there another book that helped you change the way you think about money and your attitude towards money? Share it here so we can trade resources.

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Mon, 04-14-2003 - 7:55pm
I really like "Get Out of Debt....." I don't agree on not paying for a full month. But my credit is very important to me. However, when the book was written, insurane companies and prospective employers didn't sneak a peek at your CR, so that's understandable.

The best piece of info and advice for me was to pay a bill within 24 hours of its arrival in your mailbox. This is especially helpful when you pay your credit cards online. You see the balance fall much more quickly than waiting a week or so and then mailing it (since interest is accrued daily).


Overall, it's an excellent book and I was just thinking of re reading it to keep up my momentum on becoming debt free!!!

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Tue, 04-15-2003 - 12:44pm
I did read the Mundis book, a couple years ago when I was at the 'crisis point' in my financial life. It helped wake me up, and I gained some perspective. It got me on the road to solvency. There were several things in the book I didn't agree with (not paying your bills for 30 days was one of them), but I took what I could use and let the rest go. The most important thing I think I took away was that your debt repayment plan has to be something you can live with in the long term - that it's okay to enjoy your life, and to factor in your pleasures because if you are too deprived you won't stick to the plan. Kinda like a diet. :)

Suze Orman's "9 Steps to Financial Freedome" was also really helpful to me. DH and I are currently reading "Smart Couples Finish Rich," anyone read that? We're just starting it.

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Tue, 04-15-2003 - 3:18pm
I have not been able to find Mr. Mundis' book. I have read a few posts from the archives that suggested the book was helpful. I am a big fan of Suze Orman. I have read 9 steps to financial freedom and The Courage to Be Rich. I am waiting for The Laws of Money, the Lessons of Life. I saw the PBS partial broadcast about the book. I think Suze's approach is very basic, common sense stuff that we weren't taught by our parents or "forget" over the years.

Susan

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Tue, 04-15-2003 - 3:19pm
Did Suze Orman write "Smart Couples Finish Rich"? It has a catchy title.

Thanks,

Susan

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Tue, 04-15-2003 - 3:38pm
I've read the Mundis book a couple of times. The first time, I thought I was ready to get out of unsecured debt after recently purchasing a home 2 years ago. It just did not really register with me. I've also read several of Suze Orman's books, they also did not quite really "stick" with me. I purchased her latest book shortly after it came out, and really did not like it all. I ended up selling it on Amazon within a few days. Now to what did work. The book that has had the biggest impact on me is Debt-Proof Living by Mary Hunt. She has a decidedly Christian bent, so it may not appeal to everyone. However, her practical advice has helped me pay off approx $2400 in debt so far this year. I have a very long way to go, but this is the most progress I have ever made. I have not used my revolving credit at all this year. Again, a new thing for me. I've also begun saving money and funding my freedom account according to her plan. I haven't needed to scramble to pay my quarterly homeowner's association fees and should have no problem paying car insurance next month.

I like the fact that she doesn't say that you shouldn't save money until you pay of debt like some others suggest. It may take a little longer this way, but I am really proud of both my developing savings habit and my progress on repaying debt. I sometimes get discouraged when I realize that it will take several more years to clear everything up, but try not to let it get to me too much. Impatience is what got me into this position in the first place. I also like the fact that she encourages you to give to church or your favorite charity as a regular part of your monthly spending. This also probably increases the timeline for paying but is my small way of showing how grateful I am for what I have. I also liked Carol Keefe's book - How to get what you want with the money you have. It helped put into perspective that I don't have to stop enjoying life while I pay off debt. I can do both (within reason).


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Wed, 04-16-2003 - 11:06am
"Smart Couples" was written by David Bach, author of "Smart Women Finish Rich." Again there are a few things in the book that just don't set well with me, but I think in every case you take what you need and leave the rest. The couples book is a really good tool for getting on the same page with your partner and talking about your goals.

OOOH, I just remembered - another one of my favorite finance books is "How to Hide Money from your Husband," by Heidi Evans. Controversial title, yes, but the book's focus is on women being financially independent and avoiding some of the crippling financial mistakes we make "for love."

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Wed, 04-16-2003 - 12:53pm
Hi mom! Have you looked at Larry Burkett? If you enjoy reading books that stress Christian values, you'll love Larry's outlook on finances. :o)

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Wed, 04-16-2003 - 2:27pm
Thanks for the info. Last fall, our investment advisor presented a women's seminar based on the book "Smart Women Finish Rich" I really enjoyed the program. However, I didn't get around to reading the book. The seminar had a lot of good info that got DH and I talking about the "what ifs".

Susan

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Wed, 04-16-2003 - 3:49pm
I read "Financial Peace" by Dave Ramsey. It was ok, but it didn't teach me anything that I didn't already know. It put a lot of emphasis on religion and tithing and that wasn't really my cup of tea. I bought the book at a particularly low point in my financial life and frankly, I could barely keep my head above water without giving money I don't have to the church. I am not against charity if I didn't feel I needed it myself. I like to donate blood on a regular basis. I can afford that!

What DID help me immensly was his e-mail support group. Through them, I learned some simple steps for dealing and working with creditors that officially started my road to recovery. But the stuff that helped me there wasn't in the book. Go figure.

It's support groups like this one that really help, because it's here that I learn tips that work in the real world. Practical tips. I don't think some of the tips in the books are really practical.

Sharon

 

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Mon, 04-21-2003 - 4:43pm
The book that realy made a difference in my life and made me look at my financial life differently is " Your Money or Your Life." I've read "how to Get out of Debt..." and I like Mary Hunt because she has been there, done that so I don't feel like she is condescending. Thanks for the good question!

This is he first time I've posted in a LONG time. I just couldn't get past the new format.

Love,

Pat