That after my first visit here earlier today I decided that the ony way to overcome all this madness was to actually sit down and figure everything out. So I did..I sat down and H came over and was looking at me like I sprouted a head and we figured out a plan together. I also set up automatic weekly on line payments so now I know the money will be coming right out of the bank every week and going to the CC companies and the electric company and the cell phone and the phone and well all of them...even the dentist. My H knows how much he needs to make his checks every week in regards to the overtime he chooses to work and I can rest a little now.
I also read the post...Im sorry Im not sure who posted it...about the groceries being 45 a week and I cannot wait to try that plan. I think if I make it a game of sorts than I will be just fine.
I also read a post where someone said they made their laundry detegent and their cleaners...this may sound clueless but can someone tell me how????
Thanks so much for this...you have no idea how much you all helped even though you said nothing directly to me!!!!