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i'm going to be bald soon
| Fri, 10-22-2004 - 11:23pm |
I got one of dh's cc bills today and he went over his limit. He only used it once (that was too much btw lol) and he spent $25 on chinese. How does that happen? And the worst part is, it was just for himself. I highly doubt that, I think he bought his roommate some too. GRRRR. It took everything I had not to blow up at him on the phone when he called. I was in such a bad mood today before I even recieved that. Last night I just went off about money (not at him was just releasing frustrations and anger) and told him this sucks and I can't take much more of this. I didn't have a good day and am reaching the end of my rope. There has to be a light at the end of the tunnel; I'm just not seeing it.

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I have asked him to go to financial counseling but he refuses that also. I told him I would go with him. I just wouldn't send him to something like that by himself lol.
When he comes home from tdy and still hasn't changed and before he/we get back to where we are now, I will make him go to financial counseling even if I have to talk to his CO or whoever I need to talk to. Maybe they can help me make him go.
Probably the only way that's really gonna open his eyes is maybe talking to the CO.
((((HUGS)))) I hope so too!
As far as you not having any money for you, I completely understand. I haven't bought anything for myself in the last six months, except for maternity clothes. I still only spent around $150 for a wardrobe full. At least I bought a few things and am making do. I figure I don't have to have an extensive wardrobe, so what if I wear the same things every week, I am not expected to look like a super model, I am pregnant.
DH on the other hand, buys a new computer so he can do his work, then he has to add software onto it, because the software he already had he could only put on one computer per licesnsing agreement, then he has to have a cable lock for it so it won't get stolen at work, etc., etc., etc.
In other words, I feel your pain. Let me put it this way, our one credit card carried a zero balance in June--now it is maxed out. When DH came home for lunch today, I told him no more cc. It will only take six months to pay it off (I think I am dreaming--realistically it will take much longer) but I feel bad because we were doing so well, now we are doing so bad.
Kellie
I know how you feel.
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