Refinanced. DH does a number....
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Refinanced. DH does a number....
| Sun, 09-04-2005 - 1:30am |
Hi, everyone. Well, the refinance went through. Got a fixed rate. DH decided that we should pay off everything. Cars, cc's, etc. Monthly payments will be about $300 more. The shocker? Well, the amount we owe on the house will go up about$40,000. No surprise. Remember, DH has the $11K or so in HIS checking account, from the refi we did last yr.. For a rainy day, or for whatever he pleases. So what does he do? He went out and bought a HDTV. Did he tell me? No. I found out when the cable guy called to set up installation date. I just spent a bundle on bills, and all I have in my account is $25.00 now. There are more medical bills coming in. And, I got the news from the doc that I have to have more tests. Is it serious? Could be. I am sooo mad, I could spit cotton. Sorry for venting, but I am sooo mad that DH has me pay a lot of the bills right now, when he is sitting on $11K in the bank. Whiz.

Hi Whiz,
good to hear the refi went through, not good to hear about your husbands 'shopping tour'. I have no idea what a HDTV-set costs, but it sounds like expensive. And letting you sit there with the bills while he has the money is not really what one would call fair.
I also will keep my fingers crossed and send positive thoughts your way about the medical issue, that everything will turn out fine.
Greetings and some friendly hugs,
Jordis
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Whiz,
I just read your post, and I'm mad for you! I can't believe that. I'd be so mad. Is there any way he would start paying bills? Could part of the $11k go toward bills or early monthly payments toward the refi? I have no idea how to help you, but good luck and hugs (((whiz)))!