Stress is Debt spelled backward

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Registered: 06-15-2003
Stress is Debt spelled backward
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Mon, 12-26-2005 - 10:36pm
I need to pay off a card that I got recently. I can't let my DH find out or my family but I dont know what else to do. My stupid DH wants to "snowflake the payments and I do not want to because I got the card used it a few times and in a midnight worry frenzy panic attack I cut it up in a million little pieces (which is also the name of the current book i'm reading.) I dont know the account # or the balance, so im like a lame duck waiting for the statement to come, then be sneaky and hope I dont get caught. I'm embarrassed as hell. I know there is no "excuse" for my spending but i'm tellin ya i want to have nice clothes because I lost weight recently. How about loosing weight and wearing the clothes I already have or paying CASH for things instead of going through this torture. What's wrong with me. Love Sleepless in NJ
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Registered: 01-06-2005
Tue, 12-27-2005 - 12:06am

Congrats on the weight-loss!!!

Any way you can return a few of the items you have purchased? Although, you said you tore up the card....so maybe not....?

Either way, just start working on paying the card off. Stressing isn't going to make it any easier, girl!!!

Good luck!

~Aravis~

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 12-27-2005 - 12:07pm

Hi there - welcome to the board.

All my best,
Danni