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PISSED at DH
| Wed, 03-15-2006 - 7:20am |
Well, his spending finally got to me.
He decided to buy a motorcycle.
| Wed, 03-15-2006 - 7:20am |
Well, his spending finally got to me.
He decided to buy a motorcycle.
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Aravis..
He didn't get the bike? This is a good thing!!!
Maybe he realized how many hoops you guys would have to jump through to make it work, and just decided it wasn't worth it. Annoying, but a bit of a relief.
Or am I misunderstanding??
Anyhow, I hope you guys work things out!
Heather
I'm sorry things are rough right now.
Becky
CL of 4th, 5th & 6th grade Scoliosis
Heather, no, not exactly.
Thanks a million.
Aravis,
I am sending you good luck vibes for your talk tonight!
I hope he understands why you are upset, and that you guys are able to have a meeting of the minds! Hey, you didn't add to the debt pile! That's a good thing.
There is NO WAY EVER I would let my dh get something as frivolous as a motorcycle...even if it were only $2000!! (Heck, $200, at this point!!!)
Hang in there, girl!
Heather
Our talk did NOT help!!
All of a sudden, he starts talking about me getting a full time job to help - either he stays at the same (hard) job and my income ADDS to our debt-reduction, OR he gets an easier job (making less $) and my income keeps us afloat (doesn't add to total income, just allows him to leave his crappy job).
Um, two days ago he was wanting to add $9,000 to our debt, and now he is concerned about the debt???
I just went to bed and cried.
Aravis,
There has got to be some sort of shock factor going on, right? Like two days ago, he was ready to add to the debtpile, and today he is talking extremes. Like maybe he hasn't taken tthe time to let what you said sink in so that he can go about it in a rational manner, and is instead just spouting off.? DH and I do that sometimes, and usually, after a cooloff period of a day or so, we are able to make actual progress. I think the thing that helps us is that we are able to erase what we said prior, and start fresh on a solution.
Maybe a part time job (evenings, weekend) is an option? just something temporary to get you from point a to point b?
I homeschool my oldest, run my youngest's therapy team, and work full time third shift. It is not easy, but i have accepted that for now, if I want our situation to change, I'm gonna have to nudge it along a bit. Keep trying...something will come to you guys. And is hes not being rational, nod your head, say uhuh, and try again in a few days. It will sink in.
Keep at it, girl!!
Heather
Thanks Heather.
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