My life is over!!!!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 01-06-2005
My life is over!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tue, 04-04-2006 - 2:39pm

I can't even think straight right now!!!

 

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Wed, 04-05-2006 - 9:42am

Hey Chloe.

 

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Registered: 03-26-2006
Wed, 04-05-2006 - 9:59am
Uggggh! Family law is so complicated! Good luck Aravis, things will work out:)
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Registered: 02-09-2004
Wed, 04-05-2006 - 10:26am

Aravis,

I'm so sorry you are in this position. I'm glad you are going to meet with an attorney, they will be able to advise you as to your best approach. I'm a paralegal and used to do family law but I live in PA and things are so different in every state. Your husband should definitely petition for visitation even if it is only a few weeks during the summer months. I'm sure it is hard on him not having a relationship with his children. I wish you luck. Things always have a way of working out.


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Wed, 04-05-2006 - 10:27am

Complicated is right!

 

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Fri, 04-14-2006 - 12:44am

Well, no matter how I squeeze the budget, we are at least $600 short each month.

 

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Registered: 12-12-2004
Fri, 04-14-2006 - 7:06pm
Hi, Aravis---well, I wanted to give you a big hug, and I am saddened to hear of these visitation/alimony troubles. Here's hoping your DH will get to visit his kids more often. I honestly dont know how those financial bean-counters can come up with this crazy amount of $300 weekly. Did you decide to take a P.T. gig? Are you taking classes this summer? You have been a breath of fresh air here with your encouraging, positive posts, and a big support for my skin trials---I just know something good will come to you, as you have a good heart. WIth hugs, Whiz.
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Registered: 09-22-1999
Sat, 04-15-2006 - 9:08am

Dear Aravis,

Just sending you a whole bunch of HUGS!!! I hope everything works out okay for you and your family.

Best wishes,

Littlesbigs

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Registered: 12-12-2004
Sat, 04-15-2006 - 1:50pm
Hey, Aravis---Saw this article about "virtual visitation rights". Is law in Utah and Wisconsin (recently passed). Talked about what was needed--Webcam, IM, parental guidance, pros/cons, challenges with technology (mostly overcome), and still, the need for face-to-face visits. Interviewed users, how they liked it, etc. Might be something your DH could use? Some state legislatures are mulling over this to expand visitation custody rights. Whiz.
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Registered: 01-06-2005
Sat, 04-15-2006 - 6:16pm

Thanks for the hugs!


Whiz, the virtual visitation thing sounds neat!

 

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Registered: 01-06-2005
Sun, 04-16-2006 - 8:38pm

Okay, I have formulated a plan of attack!


(1) Send resume to all area radio stations and television stations.

 

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