new here - totally stressed out

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Registered: 08-03-2008
new here - totally stressed out
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Sun, 08-03-2008 - 1:01pm

Hi all.

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Registered: 05-16-2007
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 7:56am

Wow, I'm so sorry. I can't blame you for being furious. I know you'll find some great support here, as well as some guidance. P&PT that this situation turns around for you.


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Registered: 03-17-2003
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 10:06am
He forbids you to work part-time outside the home?

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Registered: 01-05-2006
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 10:46am

what???? he forbids you!!!!


Ya gotta do what ya gotta do, whether he likes it or not.


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Registered: 07-02-2008
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 2:56pm

First off, God bless you for making it this far. You were probably in for a HUGE shock when you saw your finances.


If your children are school age I think you need to both be out working somewhere. What kind of business is he starting? Is it practical to reduce your debt with that or did he get INTO Debt while starting this business? If he got into your debt by starting this business its most likely not going to end.


You two need to sit down and talk. He needs to put family first and start supporting your decision to want to work and help reduce your debt. Good luck.

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Registered: 01-05-2006
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 3:39pm

I think you meant to post this to amazongen.



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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 3:48pm
Hey Beverly - most of us usually just hit reply to the last post in a thread, regardless of who started it.

All my best,
Danni

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Registered: 08-04-2008
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 3:53pm
$50,000 is
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Registered: 04-21-2008
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 4:04pm

All I can say is "woe be unto he who forbids me ANYTHING".

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Registered: 08-03-2008
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 4:17pm

Hey broke_michael

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Registered: 08-03-2008
Mon, 08-04-2008 - 4:30pm

txmomoffour -

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