deeply in debt & planning to tell hus

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-09-2003
deeply in debt & planning to tell hus
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Tue, 09-16-2008 - 10:58am

my story is a long one.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2008
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 12:13pm

Does your therapist know if his abuse cycle? She might best advise you what to do but telling him in front of or near the children might not be a good idea. I do think it is best to have a third party present so if he gets abusive with you then you have someone around to help you.


Best of luck to you and keep us posted. You need to tread lightly here - if he is prone to violence this might be something that makes it much worse. Hugs to you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-1999
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 12:17pm

I am so sorry you are going through this right now.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-29-2006
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 4:28pm

Welcome.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-22-2008
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 6:18pm

I'm not sure how to advise you.