bad night

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Registered: 07-15-2008
bad night
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Tue, 10-14-2008 - 6:36am

Ladies


Last night was a bad one.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: allysonsut
Tue, 10-14-2008 - 10:01am
Guilt can be tough, especially when you feel responsible for someone else's stress. The good news is that you're on the right track, you've made a ton of progress, and it'll all be so worth it in the end! (((Lots of hugs)))!
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Sarah
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In reply to: allysonsut
Tue, 10-14-2008 - 10:27am

Please don't worry You are doing great. It has been a really bad month for us and I am half the blame But I am not taking it all on my shoulders any more Raymond did at least half of it.


All you can do is try to fix it a little and

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Registered: 07-15-2008
In reply to: allysonsut
Tue, 10-14-2008 - 2:17pm
Thanks for all the kind words.
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In reply to: allysonsut
Tue, 10-14-2008 - 3:41pm

You are doing great.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: allysonsut
Tue, 10-14-2008 - 6:35pm

One card left to payoff? That's good. Sending you lots of cyberhugs.

Hang in there. Enjoy your DD's birthday. Life is too precious.

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In reply to: allysonsut
Tue, 10-14-2008 - 8:47pm
Agreed!

All my best,
Danni

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In reply to: allysonsut
Wed, 10-15-2008 - 10:15am

Hey Ally,


I hope your day got better and you were able to enjoy the special day with your family.

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Registered: 07-02-2008
In reply to: allysonsut
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 12:42pm

Peg,


Wonderful words.


I just wanted to offer some comfort that I too am responsible for most of our family debt. I hid debt from my DH and although he knew of part of it I had spiraled us out of control. We are making changes and my DH also has good and bad days. It's hard on me. I feel I am doing my best to "fix" and change what I did wrong. I took a second job and sometimes I want to cry and scream that I am SO sorry to have done this. Especially when he's acting like a baby and that we'll never afford anything again, blah blah blah. We are LUCKY to have our home and our health and our children's health. That is what is MOST important in life.


Either way, chin up and you are doing amazing. We all go through good and bad days. Hope that caffeine IV is working.