Guilt can be tough, especially when you feel responsible for someone else's stress. The good news is that you're on the right track, you've made a ton of progress, and it'll all be so worth it in the end! (((Lots of hugs)))!
Goal: Debt free by January 2010 so we can build our dream home!
Please don't worry You are doing great. It has been a really bad month for us and I am half the blame But I am not taking it all on my shoulders any more Raymond did at least half of it.
I just wanted to offer some comfort that I too am responsible for most of our family debt. I hid debt from my DH and although he knew of part of it I had spiraled us out of control. We are making changes and my DH also has good and bad days. It's hard on me. I feel I am doing my best to "fix" and change what I did wrong. I took a second job and sometimes I want to cry and scream that I am SO sorry to have done this. Especially when he's acting like a baby and that we'll never afford anything again, blah blah blah. We are LUCKY to have our home and our health and our children's health. That is what is MOST important in life.
Either way, chin up and you are doing amazing. We all go through good and bad days. Hope that caffeine IV is working.
Goal: Debt free by January 2010 so we can build our dream home!
Please don't worry You are doing great. It has been a really bad month for us and I am half the blame But I am not taking it all on my shoulders any more Raymond did at least half of it.
All you can do is try to fix it a little and
You are doing great.
One card left to payoff? That's good. Sending you lots of cyberhugs.
Hang in there. Enjoy your DD's birthday. Life is too precious.
All my best,
Danni
Hey Ally,
I hope your day got better and you were able to enjoy the special day with your family.
Peg,
Wonderful words.
I just wanted to offer some comfort that I too am responsible for most of our family debt. I hid debt from my DH and although he knew of part of it I had spiraled us out of control. We are making changes and my DH also has good and bad days. It's hard on me. I feel I am doing my best to "fix" and change what I did wrong. I took a second job and sometimes I want to cry and scream that I am SO sorry to have done this. Especially when he's acting like a baby and that we'll never afford anything again, blah blah blah. We are LUCKY to have our home and our health and our children's health. That is what is MOST important in life.
Either way, chin up and you are doing amazing. We all go through good and bad days. Hope that caffeine IV is working.