Going to let Raymond paid the bills

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Registered: 11-17-2007
Going to let Raymond paid the bills
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Sat, 11-15-2008 - 1:17am

Well I am going to let Raymond pay all the bills this month. Please pray for me that he doesn't mess up to bad and I do not kill him.


He has already messed up once this month. I came real close to

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Registered: 01-23-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 6:50am

Good luck with that Mary Ann! We'll be waiting to hear all abou it.


My DH mistakes the two as well. He just doesn't pay attention; but, what he normally does is he'll come home from the store and say, "We must not have any money in the bank." or something equally silly and I'll ask him why. It's because when he entered his pin, it was declined. "Which one did you use?" Guess what? He tried to use the debit card pin after handing the clerk a credit card. He just doesn't pay attention. I think he'd pay better attention if he were in charge of paying the bills, but he has no interest in it and, with some bills paid online and some with checks, it would still take me a lot of worry and time to make sure he paid everything on time.


I'm sure you have a system already for Raymond. Again, good luck!


Dee


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Registered: 11-17-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 8:01am

Dee mine is the same way God they must be brothers But you tell him for me He better start paying attention because there may come a day when he has to learn and you might be around to back him up.


Mary Ann


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Registered: 04-12-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 8:28am

Maryann (& Dee),


I must have the third brother.

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Registered: 11-17-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 9:09am

He has to learn now. You know why. I think he is just messing up so much because he has his head in the sand.


Take care


I am going back to bed.


Mary Ann


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Registered: 04-12-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 11:34am

Yes, I know why.

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Registered: 08-22-2008
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 11:53am
You are VERY savvy about finances, Mary Ann.
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Registered: 11-17-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 2:12pm

Well he paid one credit card that was ok. He did that right Then he went wild.


I had everything listed that goes out of bill account already listed on Quicken He didn't look at it.


I had everything again listed in this little book I bought him Didn't look at that either.


We get our

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Registered: 04-12-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 2:36pm

Oh good grief.


Have you written it out as simply as you possibly can, like MaryAnn's Version of How to Pay Bills for Dummies?


I know we like to joke about our DHs but I'd be really irritated at an overdrawn account.

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Registered: 06-18-2004
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 3:55pm

Mary Ann, huge hugs to you and Raymond.

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Registered: 11-17-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 4:42pm

Kellie


Raymond is not a bad man

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