It might not seem like it, but this is a positive thing. It is better he learns these things now than later on down the line. All you can do is tell him what you *think* he should do. You are a smart woman Norman, boys have to make these mistakes on their own. Just tell him your experiences and hope he gets the hint.
You are right that he is going to have to suck it up. It's one thing to help out adult kids when they really need it, but enabling them to have "toys" - nope, not in my book!
It might not seem like it, but this is a positive thing. It is better he learns these things now than later on down the line. All you can do is tell him what you *think* he should do. You are a smart woman Norman, boys have to make these mistakes on their own. Just tell him your experiences and hope he gets the hint.
Your exactly RIGHT!
Norma
"Patience is the best remedy for every trouble"- Plautus
You are right that he is going to have to suck it up. It's one thing to help out adult kids when they really need it, but enabling them to have "toys" - nope, not in my book!
Kelly
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