Gave DH a mouth full this morning......

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Gave DH a mouth full this morning......
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Mon, 02-16-2009 - 2:54pm

I did peeled him pretty hard.

Norma


"Patience is the best remedy for every trouble"- Plautus


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Registered: 11-14-2008
Mon, 02-16-2009 - 3:20pm

DHs bounce back pretty well. Who knows, maybe they(current job) will come through this time. He might even be a little bit greatful to you. BUT, it couldn't hurt to say "I'm sorry I came down on you that way, I just hate to see you be treated that way by your employer and I was thinking of you/us, you deserve that money and little respect"

This too shall pass, GL Norma.



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Registered: 04-12-2007
Mon, 02-16-2009 - 4:06pm

I don't understand companies that don't take care of their people.

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Mon, 02-16-2009 - 4:54pm

I always feel so bad when I come down hard on dh for something that isn't really in his control. My dh, like yours, is a sweetie and far more easygoing than I am. I am the high strung, type A personality in our relationship. He rarely gets mad or allows people to bother him. When I see people taking advantage of him it irks me - and most of the time HE just does NOT see it! Sometimes I want to strangle him because he allows it to happen!


I would tell your dh "I'm sorry I snapped at you, I'm just frustrated at them for not following through" and then let it go. If he's like my dh, he'll appreciate the apology and perhaps see that you are right about the situation.


Good luck getting what the company owes you guys!

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