feeling relieved but at the same time

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Registered: 06-20-2008
feeling relieved but at the same time
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Mon, 03-09-2009 - 2:11pm
Well it happened, at my dh job they cut the salaried employee's, our pay didn't get cut he's hourly at least not for this quarter. I am relieved but feeling guilty and sad also, one of the salaried employee's is my husband's brother , just wanted to talk thanks for listening



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Registered: 03-17-2003
Mon, 03-09-2009 - 2:18pm
Exhaling a sigh of relief.
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Registered: 04-10-2003
Mon, 03-09-2009 - 2:35pm

Its okay to be relieved. You can feel bad for BIL and his family, but that shouldn't make you feel guilty about not losing pay. Does BIL have children? Maybe you could take them for a night. I'm sure he is stressed right now and would love the chance to be kid free for a night.


Just a thought!


Bex -


"Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift -thats why its called the present."


Bex -

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Registered: 11-14-2008
Mon, 03-09-2009 - 4:19pm
Glad your DH did not get cut. Good luck.


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Registered: 02-13-2009
Mon, 03-09-2009 - 5:30pm

Glad to hear that as of now your household is not being effected. My heart goes out to your Brother-in-laws household during this time of hardship. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers as well for all of the families being effected by this recession. :)

~~Maggie~~

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Registered: 10-02-2008
Mon, 03-09-2009 - 8:49pm
Did you mean they cut him?
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Registered: 06-20-2008
Mon, 03-09-2009 - 10:08pm
They just cut his salary



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