Feeling guilty

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Registered: 08-22-2008
Feeling guilty
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Wed, 04-15-2009 - 12:35pm
I told them at work today I want to go as-needed.
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Registered: 03-27-2005
In reply to: larkspur66
Wed, 04-15-2009 - 12:58pm

I like to look at all that I can do for my family that I couldn't do if I worked outside the home.

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Registered: 08-04-2008
In reply to: larkspur66
Wed, 04-15-2009 - 1:07pm

I was home for 18 months when DD was a baby (went back to work 3 weeks after she was born and opted for a layoff when she was 5 months old, so I did get paid for 12 months)




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Registered: 04-09-2003
In reply to: larkspur66
Wed, 04-15-2009 - 2:42pm
I was an at home mom for 12 years, until my youngest was 7. You will not regret the time you spend with your kids. Now that my kids are all grown, I am so glad I spent that time with them. Yes, money was tight, and I basically had to go to work when I did because health insurance costs were crazy as my dh is self employed. When I was home, we did alot. I was a zoo member, which is so well
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Registered: 10-01-2008
In reply to: larkspur66
Wed, 04-15-2009 - 4:37pm

I'm feeling "Green" with envy.

Norma


"Patience is the best remedy for every trouble"- Plautus


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Registered: 07-10-2003
In reply to: larkspur66
Wed, 04-15-2009 - 8:41pm

It might help to look how you will likely feel later.

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Registered: 02-16-2004
In reply to: larkspur66
Thu, 04-16-2009 - 6:46am

I am jealous as well....but I shouldn't be because I did get to stay home with my son until he entered school. I do think it's good that you can be there for your kids.


I wish I could cut my hours. I hate working f/t. I miss out on all my son's school-related activities. I am exhausted by the end of my day. I just feel like a shell of myself:(


Sometimes the tough decisions in our life end up being the right thing for us to do.


 


 



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Registered: 08-22-2008
In reply to: larkspur66
Thu, 04-16-2009 - 5:46pm
Thank you for your support.
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Registered: 02-07-2006
In reply to: larkspur66
Thu, 04-16-2009 - 6:17pm

I just wanted to chime in to say that I quit my job in Sept. to be a stay-at-home Mom.

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Registered: 08-22-2008
In reply to: larkspur66
Fri, 04-17-2009 - 9:04am
Thanks, that was especially helpful as I am also a nurse working about half time.