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| Mon, 07-20-2009 - 11:18pm |
Frankly ladies today I want to fold over and raise my white flag. I know giving up is not an option but I just don't see a light at the end of the tunnel to our debt. How are we supposed to pay off $20K in debt when we have every penny accounted for with each paycheck?
I have nothing left to sell on Ebay. Unless I change my mind again and not go to school (part-time) and instead just get a 2nd job I have no room to earn money beyond my regular paycheck.
Honestly I feel like I just - can't- breathe. I don't want to give up and sell our home (beside my DH says we are no where near needing to do that) but I hate this. The debt makes me feel like a failure and not being able to make any kind of decent dent in it is sucking the life out of me.
I don't wan to be a complainer - my whole life I have made solutions to thinks, managed projects, and got things done.
This time I feel had - done in and like I am just immobilized. Is this what my life is going to be?
Aw crud now I sound like "poor me".
:-( Sorry


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I think some days we feel like we have the weight of the world on our shoulders.
Norma
"Patience is the best remedy for every trouble"- Plautus
Thank you, thank you. For for offering kind words but even more for just understanding.
May Ann - you can ALWAYS talk to me like a dutch aunt! LOL. I have never heard that phrase before but if your words were the words of a "dutch aunt" keep them coming!
Dee - We are *always* making the minimum payments on time and most months we are paying more than the minimum even if it is only $5.00 more! Psychologically paying more makes me feel like I am in control and not the stupid cc companies!
Sullen Gurl - I too threw worry to the side and said I would "worry about the debt later" with my first master's degree - that is why I have so much concern that I don't rack up any more debt for schooling!
Danni - DH IS good for me - in so many ways he is the ying to my yang. I am all type A and he is all type B!
Thanks again EVERYONE!
Danni
cl-phocid, Debt Support Group
All my best,
Danni
Yes exactly Dani! We are two peas in a pod yet opposites who attract!
The good thing is every day we love each other and he always keeps me sane - well at least the days when we are not making each other IN-sane!
I have days like this too!
I think Norma made a very good point.
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