OT: We broke up

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OT: We broke up
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Wed, 12-02-2009 - 9:55am

Sigh. It happened last night. I was telling him about a friend of mine who had lived with her now DH, moved out but continued dating and then moved in together again a few years later when they were ready so there was hope for us. To which he replied, "I don't think so".


So that was the end of it. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. He moves out tomorrow. I am feeling


Bex -

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Registered: 07-14-2008
Wed, 12-02-2009 - 3:43pm
My sentiments are the same as everybody else. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Lean on people here as well as your family and girlfriends.





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Registered: 07-10-2003
Wed, 12-02-2009 - 7:50pm

I know how hard it is to deal with things like this. BUT its better now than down the road if you got married and then this happened or had children and then this happened.

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Registered: 04-12-2007
Wed, 12-02-2009 - 8:05pm

Oh, Bex, I'm so sorry, sweetie!!!

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Registered: 10-01-2009
Wed, 12-02-2009 - 11:19pm

Hey Bex...Sorry about your breakup.


Not a good time to breakup but its great that he cut you loose now rather than stringing you along.


Take time to be with friends and family...cry when u need to, complain when you need to and time will take care of a broken heart.


PS Don't forget about your EAP program if you need it


and on a serious note...get drunk once or twice if you need to but NO More than that...


When you feel better..in a few months...for your own peace of mind ask him what happened that led to his decision...it could be really helpful for your next relationship...


Duke

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Thu, 12-03-2009 - 12:50am
I'm so sorry.
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Registered: 08-04-2008
Thu, 12-03-2009 - 8:36am

Bex -


I know you are going through a lot of mixed emotions right now, but you are a very strong young woman and will come out the other side knowing a lot more about yourself and stronger because of it.


I got divorced from a man I should not have married and had




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Registered: 09-22-1999
Thu, 12-03-2009 - 10:41pm

Dear Bex,


HUGS!!!!

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Registered: 08-08-2005
Fri, 12-04-2009 - 2:27pm
Hi Bex. I am sorry this is putting such a damper on your holiday season, but keep your chin up and the right guy will come along, and you will both know its right and there won't be any wondering if there is hope for you guys. Also, sounds like you may miss the dogs more than him - any chance you could adopt one? Hard to be down, when someone is wagging their tail waiting to give you kisses and go for a walk. Good luck in your new start!

Angel


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