Today stunk! DH lost his job!

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Today stunk! DH lost his job!
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Wed, 01-06-2010 - 10:02pm

I'm more annoyed than anything else and my pessimistic side is showing big time.


Every stinking time we get to where we can see a pinhole of light a wall gets shoved in front of it so we are in the bleak black hole again.


Personally -- all I'm thinking at the moment for life is "Frankly my dear I don't give a damn"

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Thu, 01-07-2010 - 11:55am

((((Becky)))), that DOES stink. I'm so, so sorry. Don't give up. Burrow through - never give up! I know it's not easy to stay optimistic, but I also know, as well as anyone, that if you don't look up it will be ten times as hard to find the solution. Hang in there, girlfriend!

I will reply to your em, btw. Got backed up on a few work-related things.

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Thu, 01-07-2010 - 11:57am

It's always possible I suppose.

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Thu, 01-07-2010 - 12:01pm

Oh trust me, I know.

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Thu, 01-07-2010 - 1:25pm
So sorry Becky!

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Thu, 01-07-2010 - 2:15pm

Oh Becky I'm so sorry!

Perhaps this is an opportunity in disguise and DH will get a better more secure job.

I have you guys in my thoughts.


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Thu, 01-07-2010 - 2:59pm

He just got an e-mail about something that could be a whole lot better but we won't know until next week.

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Thu, 01-07-2010 - 2:59pm

So you both have a good plan of action it sounds and it might help to write it down for both of you so you have a task list and can really buckle down and work together to get things done off the list.


My Ex is on his 3rd unemployment extension and I heard there is another coming.




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Thu, 01-07-2010 - 10:24pm
Sorry you are going through all this. I can't imagine. I hope your DH gets something quick so that you can see the light again.





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Fri, 01-08-2010 - 7:53am

Just thought I'd check in and see how you're doing.


I'm having a really bad day myself -- very busy hosting a pity-party for myself -- so thought I'd visit your thread.

Kate


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Fri, 01-08-2010 - 9:10am

My head space is a bit numb.