It is hard to give up control

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2007
It is hard to give up control
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Tue, 02-02-2010 - 9:15am

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-24-2007
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 9:30am

Mary Ann, I can totally understand why it would be hard for you.

Kate


empty purse

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2008
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 11:47am

No kidding that would be tough!

It is a lot easier for people to bury their heads in the sand when they have never done any of the finances before. When you have done them all your life that is a totally different story!

Sorry to hear about the toes and foot.

The real question is what have you gained? Have you gained any peace not fretting over the numbers? Do you think about it a little less?

Thinking of you Mary Ann.


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2007
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 1:50pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2008
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 2:10pm

Oh Mary Ann, I feel for you.

Norma


"Patience is the best remedy for every trouble"- Plautus


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2008
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 3:48pm

MaryAnn-


I can so relate to that loss of control right now.




iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2009
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 6:54pm

Hi Maryann....


Gosh that is soooo tough....


Can Raymond give you special warm sponge baths in a sweet romantic way....


Im glad you have your new television ...Enjoy it...


About the finances...You have trained Raymond really well...just trust in him


Duke

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-10-2003
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 7:55pm

Sorry you are going through this!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2009
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 9:05pm

Mary Ann


Sorry for all your health isues and hope and pray for better health for you.

Lila
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2007
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 11:49pm

Thanks for the kind words. Lilady I made always two payments a month on things Well to be honest I sometime made up to 4 payments on some bills a month. There is nothing wrong with that.


My husband checks was right at 3000.00 compaired to a lot of people