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| Mon, 12-22-2008 - 12:44pm |
I've been scarce here, not even reading, but I remember someone posting about the psychological aspect and I wanted to post something my partner said. We were standing in front of the mirror after showering and he asked if I like my new breasts. Well I pointed out that, in only going to a B not an A cup as I'd hoped, the stretch marks around the bottom of my breasts from nursing my son are still there and the skin lays a little funny near one end of the sideways scar. He asked "But do your shoulders, neck, or back hurt anymore? That's what's most important." And then he did something affectionate :D
so yeah, they don't look *perfect* but the pain is certainly gone
so yeah, they don't look *perfect* but the pain is certainly gone
Love and Light, Joelle
Homeschooling mom to a
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Love and Light, Joelle
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I'm the one who posted the message you were referring to. Thanks so much! I am really starting to realize that I alone am the one bearing this weight. If someone is only with me for my boobs then what use are they?
I scheduled my PS consultation for 1/7/09. I'm getting excited. If all goes well (with insurance, etc) I'll be picking out normal size bikinis for summer....right?!
Have a happy holiday everyone!!
You very well could be. Every woman does heal a bit differently. I'm 4 months post-op and I'd guess many women wouldn't want to be in a bikini with the level of scaring I still have, but then I have a very difficult outlook from the norm on such things :D
but lol, it was funny that it took my partner to remind me that it was the pain I was trying to get rid of, not get into perfect little breasts
Love and Light, Joelle
Homeschooling mom to a
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