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|Thu, 08-02-2007 - 9:26pm|
One of my good friends (who has been TTC) just called and after the usual talk about work and things she said she wanted to share something with me that she hadn't told many people yet. I got all excited and almost blurted out - "You're pregnant!" Thank God I didn't!
She went on to confide in me that she just had another m/c (she had a m/c in Jan at 13wks). She would have been about 9wks when she had a D/C this Monday. I tried to be supportive but the whole time I was freaking out realizing that she was just about a week ahead of me. I'm afraid I wasn't very supportive or reacted well. I told her I was so sorry but was afraid to say more because I didn't want to say something inappropriate and nearly started crying (I certainly didn't tell her I was PG!).
Does anyone who has been there have any advice of what supportive things I can say the next time I talk to her? Also, since I'm due right around when she would have been due does anyone have any ideas on how/when I should share my news with her?