might be having a miscarry.....

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Registered: 07-08-2008
might be having a miscarry.....
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Tue, 07-22-2008 - 6:16pm
i just got back from my first dr apt and im 6 wks.pg. i had been having some very mild,very brief cramps over the past few wks and i put a post here about it and did some reading on it and discovered that it was normal,but i also in the past 2 or three days had like (barely) visible brownish discharcge when i wipied ,kinda like when your ending your cycle.again,barely.read that this too can be normal,so im confused.when the doc did the pap she said i might miscarry,and she sent me for blood work and ill get more on friday.. to see if the pregnancy hormone or level goes up - or down.i feel guilty bcause i did say,im ok either way,im 41 and at times feel stressesd in my marriage and it certainly would be harder to "walk" with baby in tow. i prayed for god to forgive me for saying that but also prayed for his will to be done.gosh i feel like crying because this is upsetting and i guess ill just wait and see,any experiences from you all on this? its weired i dont "feel" like im going to miscarry!

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Tue, 07-22-2008 - 11:27pm

Hi Jama01,


I'm so sorry you are having such a worry.

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Registered: 05-16-2007
Tue, 07-22-2008 - 11:57pm

First off dont feel guilty! I dont understand why your doc would tell you you might miscarry thats kind of off the wall. Anyway what you described I have read was normal too, its the bright red blood you have to worry about. im sorry your marriage isnt going exactly blissful either but never let a baby keep you in a bad relationship. I was pregnant with my 3rd child had a 1 year old and a 2 year old when I filed for divorce, not that i am encourage a divorce but its not the end of the world either.

I think that you are just feeling overwhelmed and stressed and I just hope things level out for you, stress makes everything harder. I believe that everything happens for a reason so for now try to enjoy being pregnant and wait to see where all the other pieces of your life fall.

God bless you and wow,, your having a baby congratulations!!!

Dyan







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Registered: 07-08-2008
Wed, 07-23-2008 - 12:40am
thanks girls,its not like we just have problems now in the marriage,weve been together for 6 married for 2,but for some strange reason that difunctional side of

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Registered: 05-09-2008
Wed, 07-23-2008 - 7:02am

Hi,


I'm sorry you are experiencing this now.

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