Choosing between husband and baby
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|Fri, 10-23-2009 - 8:33am|
My daughter passed away a year ago this past September. A few months after I lost her I found out I was pregnant again. That pregnancy resulted in a m/c. I found out a couple of weeks ago I am again pregnant. I am happy and my husband is not. He told me he didn't want it and I should have an abortion.....I refused.
We were having dinner two nights ago and he said best case scenario for us is that the baby would be sick and I would have to abort her. I was devastated. How can a man that tells you he loves you say something incredibly cruel?
We don't' talk about the baby, he didn't go with me to my doctor's appt., and he didn't ask how it went. I can't share with him the things I find for the baby and I am so hurt. I can't begin to express how crushed I am, I want to die.
I told him the marriage is over and he has to leave and he said he is not getting excited about the baby and is ok with it. How do I do this on my own??? I am so scared and hurt. How can you love someone and be so selfish, how can he turn his back on us?
I am so alone....
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