We still can't make up our mind if we want to know.
We both wanted to find out.
We found out at 18 weeks through ultrasound that we are having a girl.
I don't know yet if we will find out. We already have 4 boys and a girl would be nice. I can't allow myself to even entertain the thought for fear of disappointment. I don't want to be selfish and as the old cliche' goes "as long as it's healthy". But between you and me I REALLY hope it's a girl:)
I definitely plan to find out the gender ASAP (though not through amnio if it isn't otherwise needed). It's not that I have a strong preference either way, I just feel I can form a stronger bond with the baby once I know its gender. I can't wait till I can call my growing baby
We are having a boy.
Carol, mom to 7
We have no plans to find out.