Another miscarriage

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Registered: 07-18-2010
Another miscarriage
Sun, 08-01-2010 - 8:52pm

I started bleeding suddenly and heavily a couple hours ago. This is my second MC in a year. I really believed I would have a baby this time just like I did last year.

At least it was earlier on than last time. I am about eight weeks. My first two pregnancies went fine. Two PG then two MC. Maybe my eggs are too old for this stuff. I wish they would not come down the tube if they aren't good ones.

I said the last few weeks that I would not go through another PG. Now I'm thinking one more try. I'm so freaking hard headed. I don't know. Now I have to tell my husband. He will be devastated. He wants a baby so, so badly. Now I'm thinking maybe he should find a woman who can have one with him. That's some insecure stuff, huh? To put it like my Son, This sucks.


Community Leader
Registered: 11-01-2011
Sun, 11-13-2011 - 11:34am

I'm so very sorry..

I totally understand what you're feeling


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-22-2008
Sat, 11-05-2011 - 3:59am
I'm SO VERY SORRY! I totally understand your pain. I have endured 6 m/ at 14 wks. I understand the feelings. My advice to you is to allow yourself to morn the loss of this WAS a life. Grieve it and don't deny your sadness.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-06-2011
Tue, 09-06-2011 - 9:01pm

I'm so sorry for you both.

I'm another over 40 mom who miscarried.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2011
Fri, 07-08-2011 - 7:14pm
I think you should wait before you make any decisions too, and discuss it with your husband too. I lost a pregnancy about eight months ago. It was a very difficult time. I feel for you. As sad as I was I did feel some comfort eventually in the form of tne two children I do have. I hope you start feeling better soon.
Lilypie Maternity tickers
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Registered: 04-03-2011
Sat, 05-21-2011 - 9:00pm

I am so sorry for your loss. I just lost a baby two days ago, I was 12 weeks along, and cant even fucntion right now. I am devastated by this loss, and confused with my partners reaction, is doesnt seem to bother him and Im questioning whether he really wanted this child. He has no kids of his own, and

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2010
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 4:44pm

So sorry to hear your pregnancy has ended.

Wishing you all the best,



iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2010
Sun, 08-08-2010 - 11:04pm

Hi Noble:

I had to respond to you as my due date would have been March 5, 2011 but unfortunately last Wednesday I started bleeding and have miscarried.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-23-2010
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 8:05pm

I am so sorry for both your losses.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2005
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 9:34am

Hi. I don't think we've met, but I wanted to tell you how sorry I am. Two MCs is a lot of heartache to cope with -- esp in a year. I don't know whether you should try again or not -- and you need to make decisions like this

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-23-2010
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 8:02am

So sorry to hear of your loss. It really does suck. Won't advise you on whether or not to try again, but give yourself the time you need to heal from this and then make your decision. Best wishes for the future, whatever it holds.