forty..pregnant without consent

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Registered: 09-12-2009
forty..pregnant without consent
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Sat, 09-12-2009 - 11:54am

I am a single mother

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Registered: 03-05-2008
Sat, 09-12-2009 - 5:02pm
I'm so glad you found this board.

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Registered: 07-09-2008
Sat, 09-12-2009 - 6:56pm

The girls are old enough to know what happened, the older boys not so much and I would do my best to keep it from the 4 year old and new baby for as long as possible if not forever.

Shelli, married to Jason for 18 years, mom to Derek(15), Alyssa(12), and Carly (2/26/09)


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Registered: 09-12-2009
Sat, 09-12-2009 - 10:08pm
My ex has no reason to think I would consent...the last time we were intimate I was pregnant with my now four year old....as I told his mother, I guess he figured that I would be a more willing sperm recipient if I could not say no. I really only feel total disgust for him and have only so far kept it from the kids because I know they don't like him. My other kids dad died when I was pregnant with our last son, so they have seen and dealt with alot. They are aware that I don't care for my ex...except for my four year old. I would never be able to bring myself to tell any child that they were not 'wanted.'...and that's the way it would sound I guess. This SOB actually told his mother that he wanted to be a part of this...and was happy...as if that made it any better....She is really oblivious and
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Registered: 05-15-2009
Mon, 09-14-2009 - 3:14pm

I'm very sorry about the circumstances surrounding your pregnancy.

 

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