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Shelli, married to Jason for 18 years, mom to Derek(15), Alyssa(12), and Carly (2/26/09)
Congratulations! How exciting to be pg w/ twins twice. I just want to say I totally relate to how you are feeling...I am 16 weeks today and we have told NOONE. I am terrified. I have a 5 year old & 7 year old and everyone has made it known that we were crazy to have a third (which by the way we can well afford and have room for, etc., so that is not really their concern). I have other friends with young kids so it's not even that.
It's gone on so long now that I think I might just wait until I can no longer hide it before telling people. As it is, they are going to be somewhat shocked to find out I am so far along.
So perhaps I am not the best person to be offering advice, but it sounds like you are going to have a full, beautiful, wonderful family and I hope you enjoy every second of it!