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|Thu, 04-01-2010 - 10:20pm|
Hi everyone, I'd like to join this board! I'm Molly, age 40 with 3 children already ages 8, 5 (actually 6 at the end of April) and 3. I have a bit of insomnia so I'm here surfing ivillage message boards!
I recently got a BFP and am absolutely thrilled, but DH doesn't know it yet!! Here's what happened: DH was very firmly saying "no more kids..." but at the same time, he was not taking any responsibility about contraception. I couldn't be on the pill because I'm on anxiety meds (very low dose however). For the last 3 years I have been telling DH, "look if you really don't want more kids then why don't you go get a vasectomy, or at least buy some condoms?" His answer was always "yeah yeah" but then he'd never do it.
I got a massive attack of baby fever after turning 40 (who'd a thunk it?!) and he knew it. But he limited himself to asking me "are you fertile?" This cycle when he asked me that on day 8, I said "No," because 1)