I had my first ultra sound today.
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I'm really happy that your ultrasound went so well. Of course this is a double edged sword for you as your DH is not being supportive. I think Michelle is right that it is really because of your financial situation that your husband is not being supportive. My husband is employed, but I think he worries too that he may not be able to support us if he loses his job as I am not able to work now and don't get mat leave.
I stated telling people when I was about 6 weeks - my Mom especially because I needed her support. Everyone else I waited until 12 weeks. Get lots of rest and try not to worry too much.