We lost our baby yesterday

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Registered: 01-01-2009
We lost our baby yesterday
Wed, 02-18-2009 - 10:24am


Today, we were scheduled for a nuchal fold u/s test...unfortunately, I had to have a DNC last night.

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Registered: 02-01-2008
Wed, 02-18-2009 - 10:57am

I am so sorry to read of your loss.

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Registered: 03-01-2007
Wed, 02-18-2009 - 1:16pm
I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Registered: 07-09-2008
Wed, 02-18-2009 - 2:39pm
Jolie, I am so sorry for your loss.

Shelli, married to Jason for 18 years, mom to Derek(15), Alyssa(12), and Carly (2/26/09)

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Registered: 03-27-2004
Wed, 02-18-2009 - 2:47pm
Jolie, I'm so sorry to hear of your baby.

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Registered: 04-28-2005
Wed, 02-18-2009 - 5:33pm

I am so sorry to hear that.

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Registered: 05-31-2004
Thu, 02-19-2009 - 1:36am

I am so very sorry. Losing a baby is so hard, no matter how far along you are. (((Hugs)))

As you know, we just lost our baby too, will be three weeks on Friday. We were scheduled for the NT the following Tuesday and had planned to make it more public after that. I still don't know for sure what we will do about having another, even though this is not my first loss, I am scared now like I have not been with the others. How old are you? I had to have help to get pregnant years ago, but now I don't seem to, even though I am 44. My doctor did say that if we decide to try again that they have found clomid sometimes helps in the outcome of the pregnancy. He also said that I should be on 5mg of folic acid, up from the usual 1mg for younger moms. That was something I had not heard before.

Definitely give yourself some time to work things through. I am just so sorry that you had to go through this, it is so hard. If you need to talk or anything, feel free to email me off my profile. I will be thinking of you. (((Hugs)))


Loving Mom to three


Loving Mom to three rambunctious 

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Registered: 09-17-2008
Thu, 02-19-2009 - 5:44pm
I'm so sorry for your loss Jolie....I have had 2 misses, I understand how painful it is. They say that up to 25% of all pregs end up in misscarraige by the 12 week (that seems to be the magic number), so unless you have had multiple misses you should be able to concieve again and have a healthy baby, especially since you concieved naturally this time.
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Registered: 08-22-2008
Sat, 02-21-2009 - 6:45pm
While I am a lurker on this board, but had to post on this one. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I understand so much the feelings your probably going thru. I have also lost two PG's one at 13 wks another at 14 wks. {hug} The advice to allow yourself time to greive is very smart. I took the time to allow myself this and am now feeling much better. I think the hard part for me was I kept thinking I'm "too old" or maybe this is "it" and such. That feeling was kind of tough to over come at first. But I still have hope and I pray that you also can find that sense of hope too.

Michael & Renee


DS 24,DS22,DD20,DD16

TL 2/93

TLR 10/99


M/C @7 wks 3/03, M/C @13 wks

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Registered: 11-08-2007
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 7:35pm
Jolie, I am so sorry to hear about your loss.



Summer Fun

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Registered: 07-31-2003
Tue, 02-24-2009 - 6:41pm
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

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