Loss

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Registered: 05-04-2006
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Sat, 05-08-2010 - 11:39am

Hi. I just wanted to let you know that I started spotting Wednesday night, a u/s on Thursday found no heartbeat and I m/c'd at home Friday night. This is devastating.

So I wish you all the very best. I may check up on you, and I hope to rejoin you with better news some day.

Thanks for all the support you've given me.

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Registered: 04-17-2010
In reply to: sunnymama7
Sat, 05-08-2010 - 12:32pm

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

MaryBeth

MaryBeth, Mom to Carolee (21), Spencer (19), Alex (8), and new little blessing EDD 11/9/2010!
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In reply to: sunnymama7
Sat, 05-08-2010 - 1:59pm

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. It's always a disappointment to read such posts from a member, but I'm glad you let us know. Give yourself as much time as you need to move on from this. Best wishes for the future.

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Registered: 02-22-2008
In reply to: sunnymama7
Sat, 05-08-2010 - 6:12pm

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know how hard it is! I had a m/c 2 years ago. It was my 1st time every pregnant and I made it to almost 12 weeks when I started bleeding & I knew something was right. It turned out to be a blighted ovum. It was hard because I was so thrilled to finally be pregnant. Anyway, I had a d&c and then 2 months later, DH & I started trying again & we got pregnant the first month. So take some time & build up your strength & nutrients in your body & I am sure we will see you here again soon!


Hugs to you & Take care,


Michelle


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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: sunnymama7
Sat, 05-08-2010 - 9:18pm
I am so sorry for your loss.

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Registered: 03-05-2008
In reply to: sunnymama7
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 1:11am

I'm so sorry to hear this.

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Registered: 01-11-2010
In reply to: sunnymama7
Wed, 05-12-2010 - 4:39pm

So sorry to hear you've miscarried! Take good care of yourself.


And since it sounds like you'll be trying again for a baby in the future,

 

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In reply to: sunnymama7
Wed, 05-12-2010 - 5:50pm
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is. Take the time you need to grieve. I hope your next pregnancy is sticky and trouble-free. Remember that success is possible, even after many losses after 40.
- Jenna, 41, DH 38 TTC since September '06 with MFI. 3 failed unmedicated IUI's with DH sperm, 1 failed IUI with injects with DH sperm, IVF #1 BFN, FET BFP but M/c week 5, IVF#2 BFP m/c week 7, IUI with injects and donor sperm: probable chemical pg. 1 failed unmedicated DS/IUI. Started BCP's 7/30 for IVF #3, ER 9/10, ET 9/15, Beta 9/24 results 9/25. BFP, Twins. Lost 1st twin at 9-10 weeks, lost second twin at 16 weeks 12/17/08. Attempted IUI #4 converted to DS/DH IUI April 09 at my request, BFP and M/c. IVF #4 June 09 BFN. DS-IUI w/injects 7/6/09, BFN. Hysteroscopic myomectomy to remove fibroid 7/29/09.Unmedicated DS-IUI 9/09, BFN. DS-IUI with injects, 10/09, BFP and M/C. DH/DS-IUI with injects and HGH, 12/6. BFP! Betas: 12dpo 12/18 58, 14 dpo 12/20 157, 16dpo 12/22 379, 22 dpo 12/28 4,002

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Registered: 05-04-2006
In reply to: sunnymama7
Sun, 05-16-2010 - 4:50pm

Thank you, your kind words and encouraging stories are certainly helpful.

Physically, my body seems to know what to do and feels healthy. DH and I are healing emotionally too, we are on the same page about a lot of things and especially in feeling that we're glad to have had baby bean -- even if it was for such a short time. We are not wasting time getting back to TTCing.

Peace,

Leah

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Registered: 10-23-2008
In reply to: sunnymama7
Mon, 05-17-2010 - 6:19pm
Sunny, I am so sorry for your loss. FWIW - I had a similar experience, and was pregnant again, at 42, within six months. I hope this gives you a little consolation amidst your pain.

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