Its over

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Its over
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Tue, 08-24-2004 - 12:01pm
Woke up this morning with severe cramps and heavy bleeding. Then the doc calls and tells me my HCG have fallen to 58. So, I guess I have to face that its over. I can't even begin to deal with this loss. Its different this time. The first loss I could chalk up to being an unfortunate one-time loss. The second loss means there's a problem and we may never be have a successful pg. I don't even know if I want to try again.

I want to thank each and every one of you for your support and prayers. I wish you all the very best.

Goodbye

Stacy

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Registered: 08-09-2004
In reply to: stacys74
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 12:52pm
Stacy

I am so sorry to hear about your loss, I know exactly what you are going threw I had two losses myself one in Feb/2002 & Oct. 2002 and I was thinking the same things as you are now. But be strong I know that its extremely hard and its going to take a lot to go threw it but you will I waited 19 months before I tried again and not because the doc told me but because I felt that I needed that time to heal emotional and so that my body would rest. Now I am 14weeks PG and so far so good. So don't lose your hopes because I'm sure that next time you will have a healthy 9 month pregnancy. I know that it is real difficult to stay positive til this day I still think that something might go wrong but I guess its only normal to be worried. I suggest that you and your DH wait a year or so to try again. That will give you the time to heal and be able to get threw this. I know that at this point it seems that the pain and suffering that you are going threw right now will never go away, but it will it all just takes time. I wish you the best (((((((hugs))))))))) take care of yourself and rest.


HUGS

Cristy

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Registered: 10-23-2003
In reply to: stacys74
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 1:19pm

Stacy,


I am so sorry for your loss.


                        


       

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In reply to: stacys74
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 2:49pm
I'm so sorry for your sad news, it's just awful!
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In reply to: stacys74
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 2:56pm



Oh gosh, Stacy, I'm soooo sorry. I so hoped you would have better news. I feel for you, believe me. Don't give up just yet though....things will probably be fine next time and you'll be holding a precious baby in your arms. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. ((((((((HUGS))))))))


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Registered: 11-04-2003
In reply to: stacys74
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 3:47pm
Stacy,

I'm so sorry for your loss. You and DH are in my prayers.

Alicia
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Registered: 12-28-2003
In reply to: stacys74
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 4:10pm
Stacy,

I'm so sorry. Huge hugs to you and DH.

Erin

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Registered: 05-21-2003
In reply to: stacys74
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 5:11pm
Stacy,

I'm so so sorry for your loss. I hope that if there is a problem that it is easily diagnosed and fixed. Please take care of yourself. You'll be in my thoughts.

HUGS,

Lynn

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Registered: 01-31-2004
In reply to: stacys74
Tue, 08-24-2004 - 9:48pm
Stacy,

I am so sorry. I wish you a swift physical recovery and a deep, solid, and lasting emotional recovery. No one should ever have to go through this, but I sincerely hope you know that you aren't going through it alone.

Suzanne

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Registered: 08-22-2004
In reply to: stacys74
Wed, 08-25-2004 - 7:02am
Stacy,



I am so very sorry for your loss!! My thoughts and prayers and with you and your DH! I know it may seem very bleek right now, but give yourself time to heal. There are MANY, MANY success stories from women who have had multiple miscarriages that go one to have very healthy pregnancies and babies!!! Take care of yourself!

{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

MiMi

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Registered: 05-22-2003
In reply to: stacys74
Wed, 08-25-2004 - 8:14am
Stacy,

((HUGS)) I am so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel. I also had two losses in a row, and the second one was so much more devastating than the first, for the exact reason that you said. Please give yourself some time to mourn. But don't give up hope... it happened for me on the third try. BTW, there are some great ladies on the Recurrent Miscarriage Board who can be a support to you. I spent some time over there after my second m/c before going to the TTCAMC board.

Sue

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