Oh Stephanie! (((HUGS)))) It is so hard being a PAL! (((HUGS))) again! The feeling of hoplessness can be overwhelming and is so incredibly hard. Know we are here for you! I hope next Friday gets here quickly! Is there a way to move your next u/s up? Maybe even to next Monday? Every minute earlier makes it just a tad bit easier to countdown to. (((HUGS))) Many sticky baby vibes my friend!
I completely understand everything that you are saying. It really is so hard to be optimistic after a loss. It seems like everyone out there doesn't understand because they just say... "relax, or it's bad for the baby." Personally if I hear that one more time I think I'll scream. What I think people don't understand is that our little ones are as real to use as having a baby in our arms and that not being able to know how he/she is doing is practically torture.
I'm sure everything is going fine with your baby but I agree that asking them to move up the ultrasound to help you relax is a great idea. I always start my phone call to the nurse with "Based upon my history...." That seems to help a little. I'm sending you healthy baby vibes!!! Keep us updated:)
I wish there was something I can say to make you feel better, but the fact of it is, I'm in the same exact boat as you. I keep thinking, yeh, yeh, its OK for now, but is it still going to be OK next week? or the week after that? I've had 2 losses at 14 some weeks, so my milestones are still so far away. I'm scared to get my hopes up and I'm scared every minute that I don't feel something. I'm almost trying to pretend that its not happening. I am praying for time to go by quickly. I just wish I would have some idea of what's going on.
I'm praying for us both. Stick babies, stick!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I completely understand everything that you are saying. It really is so hard to be optimistic after a loss. It seems like everyone out there doesn't understand because they just say... "relax, or it's bad for the baby." Personally if I hear that one more time I think I'll scream. What I think people don't understand is that our little ones are as real to use as having a baby in our arms and that not being able to know how he/she is doing is practically torture.
I'm sure everything is going fine with your baby but I agree that asking them to move up the ultrasound to help you relax is a great idea. I always start my phone call to the nurse with "Based upon my history...." That seems to help a little. I'm sending you healthy baby vibes!!! Keep us updated:)
Stephanie~
((((((Hugs))))))) hitting your milestone is one of the hardest things to get through.
Oh Stephanie,
I wish there was something I can say to make you feel better, but the fact of it is, I'm in the same exact boat as you. I keep thinking, yeh, yeh, its OK for now, but is it still going to be OK next week? or the week after that? I've had 2 losses at 14 some weeks, so my milestones are still so far away. I'm scared to get my hopes up and I'm scared every minute that I don't feel something. I'm almost trying to pretend that its not happening. I am praying for time to go by quickly. I just wish I would have some idea of what's going on.
I'm praying for us both. Stick babies, stick!!!!!!!!!!!!
HUGS
Alla
Stephanie~
It was not a mistake to get pg again and you are cut out to do this!
i can understand what u r going thru.it's sooooooo difficult to remain calm and not to worry.
i know once u have ur 2nd u/s u will feel much better .HUGS........
everything will be fine.
April
Married since march 01
angel babies
02/07/04 &01/30/05
April
Married since march 01{{{{ HUGS STEPHANIE }}}}
What you are feeling is absolutely normal - so don't waste one minute thinking that you made a mistake by getting pg again!
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Steph,
I am here for you and wishing that everythind would get better for you! Trust your heart!!
Jenn
EDD 5/10/06
Angel: 7/28/05
Sending lots of ((hugs))!!!
Oh Stephanie! ((((((hugs))))))
I am so sorry, this stuff is never fun... coming up to a milestone.
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