It's Still scary......
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It's Still scary......
| Mon, 02-13-2006 - 10:59am |
Okay, so I have been lurking for a while......because you know what?
| Mon, 02-13-2006 - 10:59am |
Okay, so I have been lurking for a while......because you know what?
(((Wenz)))
Wendi,
Wenz,
I wish I could give you some advice, but I have none - I feel exactly the same way! It sucks! I was talking to some friends yesterday about the baby, and I had to tell my dentist today, and both times it gave me a terrible sinking feeling, like I shouldn't be talking about this. My nightmares have gotten worse, and so has the sitting up at night and thinking "there's no way this is going to work..." We heard the heartbeat last week, they found it so much more easily than they ever did with the first baby, but it wasn't as reassuring as it was to hear it in the past. It's like a
Oh I know the feeling so well. I didn't know if I should tell or not and then I realised that if something happened I couldn't pretend to my family. So I told some of them and it helped me feel better. I know I can share my anxiety and my fear with some people. And I feel like I am giving my baby it's place. I want to feel positive and give him the place he deserves. I haven't told everyone, but my family knows and I plan to spread slowly the news. It's very personnal and we all feel different about that, do what makes you feel good and don't regret.
As for the fear, I have no idea. I wish I had a magic trick that worked, I could definitely use it. I guess that taking it a day at a time is the best thing to do. Personnally, I think I will be scared all the way, I have better days, but it will never go away completely.
Oh Wendi!!
Please know that I am here for you!! Also I wanted to let you knwo that Brie, said you had a glow about you!!! It was really cute that Brie said that sweet thing!!
Well I think that you should do what feels right in your heart!!!
Jen
OH Wenz,
BIG HUGS, I know how scary it is.
Hi Wenz~
All I can do is give you TONS of (((big hugs))).
Hi Wendi :)
I had a hard time feeling "close" and connected to my pregancy.