Wish I could calm down! Always checking

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Wish I could calm down! Always checking
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Sat, 08-19-2006 - 11:10am

I am constantly checking for spotting/bleeding.

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Sat, 08-19-2006 - 11:38am

Claudette I know how hard this time is. I just hope time fly by and you can get your next u/s and see that hb. I remember how hard it was at the beginning, it does get better even if the fear does not completely go away. Hang in there and try to keep yourself occupied. I wish I could say more and ease your worry, we are all right there with you.

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Sat, 08-19-2006 - 11:46am

Big (((HUGS))) I know how stressful this time can be just keep your chin up and think positively! We are all here to hold your hand through this. This one is here to stick I just know it. Congrats by the way dtn that in itself is a huge accomplishment at this stage of the game

Steph

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Sat, 08-19-2006 - 11:49am
Caludette, I am right there w/ you. I check every single time I go to the bathroom & sometimes if I think I feel something at all...I go running to the bathroom. It's hard to calm down when your anxiety level is so high. Sounds like we both need a big chill pill!
Aimee
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Sat, 08-19-2006 - 1:03pm

Don't worry Claudette, we all know how you feel and we have all been there!

 
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Sat, 08-19-2006 - 2:56pm

Claudette - you are not alone. I still check every single time I'm in the bathroom! And I don't think I'll ever NOT check again. Oh the joys of being a PAL...

Natasha

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Sat, 08-19-2006 - 3:22pm

Hi Claudette,

Looks like a lot of us do the same thing! Every stinkin' time I check! And poor DH, I shoo him away. It's gonna be a long pg for him if I don't start feeling more comfortable about things soon. ;p

Good luck and hang in there, we are right there with ya,
-Heather

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Sat, 08-19-2006 - 4:24pm

Claudette,


You are right it just sucks to go through a pregnancy after recurrent losses. We really do not get to celebrate and have like the rest of the pregnant world gets to. You know what, but that is ok because you are going to make it through this! I swear to you that you are one day going to hold a baby of your own in your arms. It will happen. Do not feel bad for having some fun with your DH! Because you need to have that little bit of fun in your life. I really truly feel that we need to continue to live our life’s when we are PG. You know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.


Jenn

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Sat, 08-19-2006 - 4:35pm
I felt the same way up until my 8wk appt and ultrasound.

 

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Sat, 08-19-2006 - 6:22pm

Sending big huge hugs Claudette! I know it's so scary but don't beat yourself up for being intimate with DH. You need to do some things to enjoy yourself and get your mind off worrying even if it's for just a while. And let me tell you, you are not alone in your worrying. We've all been there/still are there. Heck, I'm over 30wks now and STILL check the tp! It's just because we're great moms and love our little babies so much...just imagine how much worrying we'll do once they become teenagers! Ahhhh!!!! LOL!


Just take everything day by day and before you know it, you'll be holding that little one in your arms! Time seems like it goes so slow at first but it does speed up. And it does get easier.

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Sun, 08-20-2006 - 1:50am

Dear Claudette,



I know the feeling, I went through it too!

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