BD after BFP -- nervous!!

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Registered: 11-18-2006
BD after BFP -- nervous!!
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Tue, 12-19-2006 - 10:58pm
I know it's ridiculous, but I am so scared to bd now that I am PG. I keep thinking is we do it and then I have bleeding, I'll be (1) devastated, and (2) resentful of my wonderful honey dh!! We have bd'd a couple of times. but I'm so preoccupied I can't enjoy it. Thoughts anyone??
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Tue, 12-19-2006 - 11:57pm
Nicole... I think it took me a good 6 weeks or so after my BFP to let my DH touch me.
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Wed, 12-20-2006 - 2:33am

You're not alone!


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Registered: 12-08-2006
Wed, 12-20-2006 - 9:42am

What you are feeling is very normal and understandable! My DH and I did not DTN till I was about 8 weeks along and then it was still scarey for me. WE all know that DTN will not cause a miscarriage, but for someone reason we all have that fear!!


Sending big hugs to you,


Jenn

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Wed, 12-20-2006 - 11:53am
Nicole, it's so funny- I was getting ready to write a very similar post!
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Wed, 12-20-2006 - 11:53am

Nicole,

Like PP have said, we totally understand. I think that DH and I DTN once from BPF to our u/s at 10 weeks. And to be totally honest, it isn't a regular event even now because it makes me uncomfortable. Be honest with your DH and I'm sure he will understand how scary it is for you. Good luck!










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