New Here - Need someone to chat with

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2007
New Here - Need someone to chat with
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Thu, 05-03-2007 - 7:30pm

Hi-

I'm new to this site and I just need someone to chat with that understands how I'm feeling at this point. My husband and I are 4 weeks pregnant but we together have experienced 2 M/C and and Ectopic pregnancy. So as you can assume were both very elated to be pregnant but at the same time so scared and reserved I can't explain it in words. I'm having troubles sleeping. Everytime I feel a pinch or pain I get so scared and I'm constantley in the restroom making sure there isn't any spotting or bleeding. We urn for parenthood and it is so emotionally overwhelming and overtaking when you experience pregnancy loss. I just pray that we will deliver a Blessing and Miracle from god in 8 1/2 months. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers and we will do the same.

-I'm going for weekly HCG testing until I'm told otherwise. Praying my levels are doubling
-Will start Progesterone tabs tonight.

Thanks for reading.....

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2006
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 7:51pm

hi and congratulations !!


I do understand what you are going through!! I'm scared out of my mind with this new pregnancy but extremely excited and want to shout it out to the world ~~


Just 5 months ago I lost my little baby at 15 weeks...I delivered him at home...it was the worst day of my life ~~ I had an infection which

  ~Debby
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2007
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 8:23pm
*hugs* I'm sorry for your loss, but congratulations on this pregnancy! I'm glad you found this board; the ladies here are very knowledgeable and supportive, and know exactly where you're coming from. Progesterone is a miracle-drug as far as I'm concerned, and I hope it works for you. Just take a deep breath and remind yourself "Faith over fear." Several women here have lost a number of pregnancies and now have their babies in their arms; hopefully this pregnancy will end with you holding your baby in yours! Good luck and *hugs*!

~Didi

Wife to Ron, Mommy to Will


baby


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2006
Fri, 05-04-2007 - 8:46am

Congratulations on your pg sweetie and welcome to PAL.

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2006
Fri, 05-04-2007 - 10:15am

Welcome to PAL! We can all relate to what you're feeling. . .
Sending you lots of SBVs and a quick 1T!

Deb

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Fri, 05-04-2007 - 7:26pm

I know exactly how you feel. I have lost 2 as well. To make things worse I am seperated now from my husband and going thru this alone. Everything I try to do makes me paranoid that I am going to lose this one to. I am 38 years old and I know that I am running out of time to have a successful pregnancy. God only knows how bad I want one. I am here if you need to chat. I would appreciate having somebody to talk to.

Good Luck I hope we both come out great.