Feeling very unpregnant
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| Wed, 06-20-2007 - 9:54pm |
We just got our BFP on Sunday, and the doctor confirmed it on Monday. But it really doesn't feel like I'm pregnant. I know it's way too early for symptoms, but DH and I just aren't talking about it at all, as if a conversation would jinx it and we'll just lose this one too. It's so weird. Every now and then, I'll catch myself slipping and reaching for the Diet Coke in the fridge, and then realize after I've poured a whole glass that I can't drink it because I'm preggers.
I wasn't this way with any of my past pregnancies. Maybe it's just that the most recent loss took a really big toll on us. I don't know. We're both really excited, but we just can't seem to acknowledge it to one another or ourselves for fear that in doing so, we'll make ourselves too vulnerable. It's a horrible way to be. I guess I have to make a conscious decision to be better about it before it'll change. Maybe once we see the heartbeat, we'll feel differently. Our first U/S isn't scheduled until July 18!!! Feels like forever away.
Kristen

Kristen, I feel the exact same way. We are acting the same around here. I have even felt a little weird about posting at PAL, like I am somehow going to jinx myself. Hopefully we'll feel better after that u/s!
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I know exactly what you are talking about. Dh and I have hardly spoken about me being pregnant for fear something will happen. I'm not sure how long it will take for us to feel secure with this pregnancy. The last two m/c were difficult for us. That is why this board has been a life saver for me!
Hi Kristen.
Hi Kristen, I'm glad you posted this because I'm right there with you. I don't have many symptoms yet, but do feel better after my second beta showed my numbers doubling
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Oh Sweetie... I'm sending you so much love right now.
Hey Kristen,
It's totally normal to feel this way, as all the pp's have said. DH and I really didn't talk much about it early on--not sure if it was a conscious "don't want to jinx it" thing, or just a "don't want to get too attached, just in case" thing. I'm 13 weeks now, and it still makes me a little squeamish when we tell people. It's like--things were fine when it was a secret, why rock the boat?? KWIM???
The ladies here have been great at offering suggestions, which I have tried to take. One is to set little goals for yourself--first prenatal, first u/s, second prenatal, etc. etc. That way it doesn't seem SOOOOO very long. Second is to remember that everyone's experience of symptoms varies, and even within each person, can vary day to day. And, of course, when you are able to control that fear and worry, try to enjoy this time in your life! (I'm still working hard on that one!) We are growing actual people inside of us! How cool is that???
Hang in there, and KUP!
Wendy
EDD 12/24