8 WEeKS 2-MORROW yay!!!! BUT WORRIED
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8 WEeKS 2-MORROW yay!!!! BUT WORRIED
| Thu, 07-12-2007 - 5:00pm |
Hi Ladies sorry to go all anal again but I am having so worries ...everything is goin good cramps arent as bad as before and Like I said HB WAS 120 is that low? But any how here is my concerns...I am m scared when I go to my ultrasound on Tues that they r gonna tell me that somethin is wrong, cant find a hearbeat ,or the baby isnt growing right.....Has anyone else had these fear...I mean i have not been bleeding or spotting sine the first and Only spot I had last week but am still concerned can someone please shed some light on this situation?


You have totally normal feelings for a PAL-- BUT! you most likely have absolutely nothing to worry about. I know it is hard to stay positive!! But you have to do the best you can to try! It's normal to be nervous. I was a wreck. But as I sit here and type, I'm at 21w1d, and the little guy is wiggling all over the place this afternoon.
Hang in there and have faith over fear!! :) You'll get to see your little squirming bean soon!!
Sweetie...
I know it's scary.
If something is wrong, you'll deal with it when you get there. But why work yourself into a tizzy over something you have no control over? Maybe it is because I went through 2 1-year deployments of my husband being in Iraq--knowing that I didn't have any control over whether or not he would be okay. Even after we lost friends and friends lost husband, I had to ask myself-- why make myself miserable for the whole time?
In this case, it's a long 9 months. It's okay to be nervous, just don't let that fear overtake your life. It uses up too much energy that your little bean needs!! :)
Nervous is totally normal. The what if you need to ask yourself is "What if everything is perfect? Could I love this little bean even more??" heheheh
Good luck and keep us posted!