Feeling bad for feeling bad?

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Registered: 08-24-2006
Feeling bad for feeling bad?
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Wed, 09-12-2007 - 1:05pm

Does anyone else feel sick but, feel like they can't really complain about it or is it just me? Yesterday afternoon I was sitting on the couch crying. Dh asked what was wrong and I said that I'm sleepy, hungry, nauseous, and just feel like s$@! altogether but, I don't want to complain because I don't want to sound ungrateful. He was like, ungrateful for what? And I said ungrateful to be pregnant.


The truth is I feel like absolute crap right now (physically). I have had SO much trouble getting out of bed the last couple of days to get my kids to school and if I didn't have a 3 year old at home, I'd go back to bed after taking them. Last night, I went to bed a little before 8 and I'm still tired today. Also, the m/s kicked in over the weekend and seems to be lasting for most of the day. The thing is though, I do not want to complain AT ALL. Our loss was so recent and I am SO grateful to be pregnant again so quickly. I know it's silly but, I just fee like if I complain it seems like I don't appreciate being pregnant and that something bad will happen.


So, am I the only one who feels bad for complaining about feeling bad?


By the way, my first appt is tomorrow morning. The receptionist said that I will be getting an u/s. I know it's early (I'm 6 weeks today) and I'm so nervous about what we're going to see/not see. I've been looking at 6 week u/s pictures online all week to get an idea of what I should see. I'm so nervous and I'm driving myself crazy.


 

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Registered: 05-18-2006
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 1:50pm

Oh sweetie, big ((hugs)).

 
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Registered: 04-03-2003
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 2:04pm
I feel the same way!
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Registered: 12-08-2006
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 3:27pm

Cassandra,


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Registered: 06-01-2007
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 7:39pm

When I was pg with my DS, before I ever had a loss, I remember complaining about being so sick - I was hospitalized at only 7.5 weeks b/c I was so seriously dehydrated and my potassium was critically low.

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Registered: 08-24-2007
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 10:38pm
WELL SAID all!!!!
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