One blessed flicker, one blessed angel

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One blessed flicker, one blessed angel
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Thu, 10-25-2007 - 12:00pm

My feelings are so mixed.....

PEACE AND LOVE

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Thu, 10-25-2007 - 1:25pm

Oh Jenny, I am so, so sorry, hon.

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Thu, 10-25-2007 - 1:28pm
Oh Sweetie! I am sorry that this day wasn't better for you and that you have to process the loss of one but I still want to congratulate you on the other Beanie that is still going! I know that it must be hard and I am sure that you didn't imagine anything and I know that we all hoped that today you would see them both flickering. Just know that I am thinking of you and sending loads of PRAYERS your way that the lil' one that is sprouting grows big and strong!!

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Thu, 10-25-2007 - 1:53pm

Sending you huge (((HUGS))) Jenny, I'm sorry you were alone to face this news, I'm really sad for you lost twin, I'm sending you tons of SBVs for your surviving baby.


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Registered: 01-07-2007
Thu, 10-25-2007 - 1:57pm

Oh Jenny,


I am so very sorry. ((HUGS)) You and Stephen will be in my thoughts. I know how emotional you must be right now. I'm just so happy that you do have one sweet baby in there doing well with a strong HB. Sending lots of love your way.

 

 

 

 

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Registered: 02-08-2005
Thu, 10-25-2007 - 2:06pm

Hi Jenny,


I've kind-of BTDT.

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Thu, 10-25-2007 - 2:31pm

Jenny,
Oh sweetie I am so so sorry. I cannot offer any advice, but can only say that I can't imagine what you're feeling. Fear, sadness, hope, elation all in once. Just know that you are allowed to feel however you want and can feel free to express it hear. Huge hugs for you. I wish we were together, I'd take you out for (decaf) coffee and just cry and smile with you.

Love,
Jenn

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Thu, 10-25-2007 - 2:32pm

Jenny,


I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your twin. Matthew was suppose to be a twin also and we lost his twin very early on. It was very difficult and hard and yes you will get those comments all the time about twin stuff. I actually had one person argue with me about possibly having twins and one was hiding in the ultra sounds, I finally looked at her and said “You know what I was pregnant with twins, but one went to heaven and Matthew is coming!” It is difficult for me to see twins and everything, but I love Matthew so much and realized after having him that it was better he was not a twin. It really sucks, but I have learned through a lot of research that the twin that did not make it will actually help your miracle make it!


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Registered: 08-15-2006
Thu, 10-25-2007 - 2:55pm
Jenny I can only imagine the conflicting emotions that are running through you right now. I have no words of wisdom for you, only words and thoughts of support. (((hugs))) to you and DH during this difficult, yet also exciting time.


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Thu, 10-25-2007 - 3:14pm

Jenny-


I don't know what to say except for that I am sorry. I will keep you in my prayers!

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Registered: 08-03-2005
Thu, 10-25-2007 - 3:34pm

Aw Jenny, it's totally understandable that you're upset. I'm so sorry about your lost twin. You are right to grieve that loss, it's what will get you thru and eventually you'll start to feel better about it. It'll always be a part of you of course, but the baby you have living inside of you is amazing and precious and is so incredibly lucky to have you as a mommy! OMG, can you believe you're going to be a mommy?!! :)


I'm sorry, I'm not really sure what to say in a situation like this - I want to jump and scream for joy about your baby having a heart beat, but want to give you a big hug shed a tear for the one who doesn't.

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