is there going to be a time?

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Registered: 06-29-2007
is there going to be a time?
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Sun, 11-04-2007 - 5:16am

LADIES, FOR THOSE OF YOU WHOM HAVE GONE THROUGH SUCCESSFUL PREG AFTER MULTIPLE LOSSES,


WHEN DO YOU JUST ENJOY THE PREG ?


INSTEAD OF KILLING YOURSELF OVER EVERY SYMPTOM OR LACK THERE OF?


II AM 5 WEEKS AND AFTER 3 CONSECUTIVE LOSSES I AM A BASKET CASE


I CONVINCE MYSELF THAT I LOST THE BABY AND THEN 10 MIN LATER ...I'M THINKING ALL IS OK AGAIN.


RIGHT NOW I AM WAITING FOR SAT BLOOD DRAW RESULTS

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Registered: 10-19-2006
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 7:48am

With my last pregnancy (which was successful) I tried to enjoy every minute and be thankful for every second I got with my baby. I was bleeding heavily for the first 15 weeks so you can imagine how hard that was.


It really didn't sink in until the end of the 2T though, when baby reached viability. I didn't buy anything for the baby until well into the third trimester. I didn't really prepare at all until about 36 weeks. Then it all hit me at once and I was so anxious and excited.


My advice to ALL the ladies here at PAL are to love your baby and love every minute baby is within you. You're the only one who will ever get the privilege of carrying your baby ... ever! So even if its for only 6 weeks, or 12, or 40 ... you were chosen to care for this tiny little one for his or her stay on earth. Your baby deserves to be loved and cherished, and if something should happen, no one else will be able to love him or her - only you. So give him or her all the love you have, try to be grateful that you were chosen to carry this baby ... it truly makes it easier, and makes the days go a little faster.


Hope that helps a little.

~ Rose ~
Loving wife to Nathan since 5.16.03
Mommy to
Elaina Jane 06.04.01
Emily Grace 08.18.04
Elisabeth Cait 07.27.07
~

   
Rose
Wife to Nathan
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Registered: 01-15-2007
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 7:50am

Hi Cari, congrats on being pregnant!


hmmm..... 20 weeks later, I still have some freak outs.

~tracilee

Photob

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Registered: 06-29-2007
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 8:07am

THANK YOU SOOO MUCH FOR YOUR KIND WORDS.


I DO THINK FAITH OVER FEAR, BUT SOMETIMES IT DOES GET THE BEST OF ME. I DO THE OK FOR A DAY OR TWO FREAK , SPEAK TO THE DR, THEN OK.


LIKE RIGHT NOW I'M FREAKING... AND I WANT THE RESULTS FROM SAT BLOODS.


I HOPE AFTER THE FIRST TRI I RELAX.


AND I TOO WISH I COULD GO BACK TO THE FIRST 2 HEALTHY PREG I HAD WHEN LIFE WAS BLISSFUL


AGAIN, THANK YOU


CARI

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Registered: 01-15-2007
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 9:06am

anytime!

~tracilee

Photob

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Registered: 08-03-2005
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 11:55pm

my advice is to follow rose's advice above!

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Registered: 06-13-2005
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 12:56am

Love the name by the way! :) Cari

 
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Registered: 06-29-2007
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 5:25am

NICE NAME FOR YOU TOO! I GET THE WHOLE HB THING, BUT THE LAST PREG WE SAW IT AND I LOST THE BABY AT 9 WKS. AS I SIT HERE I HAVE CONVINCED MYSELF THAT THE LEVELS TODAY WILL SHOW A MC.


WHY B/C NOT AS MANY PIMPLES, BOOBS AREN'T KILLING ME...AND THAT EVER PRESENT PAL "DEVIL" THAT SITS ON MY SHOULDER TELLING ME IT IS OVER.


LISTEN , THANK G-D I HAVE BEEN BLESSED TO HAVE 2 KIDS FROM BLISSFUL PREG.

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Registered: 06-13-2005
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 6:08am

Good luck with your tests today! I really hope the PAL brain is just playing with you, I think you will have great test results! Hang in there!


Yesterday I was convinced all would be ok, I was feeling so miserable, m/s and sore boobs, and now my insanity brain today tells me it's not ok and questioning everything again! will it end??? I'm really starting to wonder?? And when I see a HB IF I see one will i really relax and let it go...................... sadly I doubt it....


Thank God for this site and everyone going through the same thing or I would start to think I am neurotic or something? :)

 
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Registered: 06-29-2007
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 6:28am

WHERE DO YOU LIVE?


I'M IN NY


CARI

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Registered: 06-13-2005
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 12:03am

Well,

 

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