almost here but when does anxiety go?

Yay! You're almost to the 2T. I think a small bit of spotting during the 1T is probably nothing to worry about, and it's good that you have your appts coming up soon to give you some peace of mind. How great that you were able to catch baby's HB on the Doppler - that must be very reassuring! As to your question - I'm not sure when the anxiety goes away but I'll let you know if/when it does for me, lol. I still worry and I'm nearly 28 weeks now, though not as much as before. It's different now - i.e. if I don't feel the baby move much for a day, that will set off the worry. Yesterday I poked her a few times to see if she was still kickin' in there and sure enough that got her going! lol. Let us know how the doctor goes & the NT scan results!